I am saddened by the recent decision of the General Synod of the NG Kerk (Dutch Reformed Church) on same sex unions. This official decision (9 October 2019) will only serve to create confusion around what the Bible teaches on the subject and thus be spiritually unhelpful, misleading and dangerous to people.
The decision refers to the appointment of office bearers and the acceptance of members regardless of “sexual orientation and identity”.
The Bible never condemns sexual orientation, but only sinful sexual practice. Christians may struggle with homosexual temptation or heterosexual temptation, but refuse to act on their temptation and desire. This fight against temptation is to be commended.
The Bible also calls us not to place our identity in our sexuality, or in anything else, except in Christ.
Thus the phrase “sexual orientation and identity” is unhelpful and misleading.