How Churches Choose the Wrong Leaders

Reflections on 1 Samuel 9:1-10:1

The world has a long history of bad leaders.

Time and again we see leaders who begin with great promise but end in disaster, leaving behind broken institutions, wounded people, and deep disappointment. Sadly, this pattern is not limited to politics or business. It happens in churches too.

Many churches have been led by individuals who appear impressive on the outside but turn out to be deeply unhealthy leaders. Their ministries may be marked by intimidation, angry outbursts, harsh speech, and domineering control. Questioning the leader is often discouraged—or even punished. In extreme cases, staff members or church members who raise concerns are removed.

When situations like this unfold, we often ask: What went wrong?

Very often the problem began much earlier—when the church chose its leader based on the wrong criteria.

Instead of looking primarily for godly character, people were impressed by charisma, confidence, communication skills, or organisational ability. They wanted someone who could grow the church, cast vision, and lead like a CEO.

In other words, they wanted a leader like the nations.

This is precisely the situation we encounter in 1 Samuel 9.

Wanting a Leader Like Everyone Else

In 1 Samuel 8, the people of Israel demand a king.

They say to Samuel, “Appoint for us a king to judge us like all the nations” (1 Samuel 8:5).

This request reveals something deeply troubling. Israel was meant to be different from the surrounding nations. God Himself was their King. He had promised to lead them and fight their battles for them.

But the people wanted something more visible and impressive. They wanted a king they could see—someone who looked powerful and strong.

Samuel warned them that this king would eventually abuse his authority and take advantage of them (1 Samuel 8:11–18). But the people insisted.

So God gave them what they asked for.

And in 1 Samuel 9, we meet the man who perfectly fits their expectations.

The Folly of Outward Appearances

The chapter introduces Saul like this:

“There was a man of Benjamin whose name was Kish… a man of wealth. And he had a son whose name was Saul, a handsome young man. There was not a man among the people of Israel more handsome than he. From his shoulders upward he was taller than any of the people.” (1 Samuel 9:1–2)

Saul looks like the perfect king.

He is wealthy, young, tall, and incredibly handsome. In fact, the text says no one in Israel was more handsome than he was.

Interestingly, Saul’s name means “asked for.” He is literally the king the people asked for.

From a worldly perspective, Saul is exactly what Israel wants. He looks powerful and impressive.

Our world is still fascinated by outward success. People admire charisma, confidence, appearance, and influence. These qualities often open doors and create opportunities.

But they are unreliable indicators of spiritual leadership.

The Bible never lists charisma, height, or appearance as qualifications for church leaders. Instead, passages like 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 emphasise character: humility, faithfulness, self-control, and integrity.

When churches prioritise outward impressiveness over godly character, the results can be disastrous.

A Promising Beginning

Saul’s story begins with something surprisingly ordinary: lost donkeys.

His father sends him to search for them, and Saul obediently sets off with a servant. Along the way we see some encouraging qualities. Saul appears responsible and respectful. When the search proves unsuccessful, he suggests returning home because he is concerned that his father may be worried.

Eventually Saul encounters the prophet Samuel, who invites him to a feast and honours him above all the other guests. The next day Samuel anoints Saul as Israel’s first king:

“Then Samuel took a flask of oil and poured it on his head… ‘Has not the Lord anointed you to be prince over his people Israel?’” (1 Samuel 10:1)

Saul’s leadership begins with promise.

And this is often how leadership failures begin. Many destructive leaders once showed genuine humility, obedience, and teachability. But over time—through success, pressure, and pride—their character begins to erode.

Humility fades. Accountability disappears. Leaders begin to believe they are indispensable.

And Scripture reminds us:

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18)

God Is Still in Control

Even in Israel’s misguided request, God remains sovereign.

The story of the lost donkeys might appear random, but behind the scenes God is orchestrating every detail.

“Now the day before Saul came, the Lord had revealed to Samuel: ‘Tomorrow about this time I will send to you a man from the land of Benjamin…’” (1 Samuel 9:15–16)

Saul believed he was searching for donkeys. In reality, God was guiding him to Samuel so that he could become king.

Even human foolishness cannot derail God’s purposes.

This truth should comfort us. God is never surprised by our mistakes, and His plans are never threatened by human weakness. He continues working out His purposes—even through ordinary events and flawed people.

Leadership Under the Word of God

At the end of the chapter, Samuel says something crucial to Saul:

“Stop here yourself for a while, that I may make known to you the word of God.” (1 Samuel 9:27)

Saul needed to understand that he was chosen by God, dependent on God, and accountable to God.

Israel’s king was always meant to rule under the authority of God’s Word. Deuteronomy 17 even required the king to write out a copy of God’s law and read it regularly so that he would remain humble and obedient.

Sadly, Saul would later ignore God’s Word and begin making decisions based on his own judgment.

The same temptation exists for church leaders today. It is possible to teach the Bible to others while quietly neglecting its authority in our own lives.

True spiritual leadership must always remain under the authority of God’s Word.

The King We Truly Need

As Saul’s story unfolds, it becomes clear that he is not the king Israel truly needs.

He will eventually disobey God, make disastrous decisions, and lose the kingdom.

Saul leaves us longing for a better king—a king who will not only start well but finish well.

And that king is Jesus Christ.

Jesus entered Jerusalem riding on a donkey. He refused to compromise even when facing death. Instead of using power to serve Himself, He laid down His life to save His people.

Jesus may not be the king the world asks for.

But He is the King the world desperately needs.

Leadership implications

First, it reminds churches to be careful how they choose leaders. Charisma, gifting, and vision can be helpful qualities, but they must never replace godly character. Scripture calls us to prioritise humility, faithfulness, and obedience to God’s Word.

Second, it warns leaders to guard their own hearts. Many leadership failures begin with small compromises and growing pride. Leaders must remain humble, accountable, and rooted in the Word of God.

Third, it encourages us to trust God’s sovereignty. Even when leadership disappoints us, God is still at work. His purposes will never fail.

Finally, this passage points us to Jesus—the perfect Leader who never abuses His authority, never fails His people, and never disobeys His Father.

Jesus may not always fit the world’s expectations of leadership, but He is exactly the Leader we need.

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